Not Man-made. God-made

Keep in mind, if you trust God, really trust God, in both His goodness and control, you will stop blaming everyone else for your problems.

You will realize that the ultimate source of all of your problems is Him. If He is good, and in complete control, then everything that happens to you, both good and bad, happens for a reason...even if the reason is because your stupid.

If you love Him, it is because He loves you, and all of it, even your stupidity will work out for your benefit.

Romans 8:28

[28] And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

"All things", That is what it says in God's word.

What to be free? From shame, guilt, resentment, depression, and enmity?

Seek God.

Know His Word.

Accept His power and authority.

If you do these things, you will get to know Him. Since He is awesome, your only response is to trust Him.

Then all your life, is His work, and He doesn't make mistakes.